Showing posts with label success. Show all posts
Showing posts with label success. Show all posts

Friday, 24 June 2016

WHY SHOULD WE HAVE A MENTOR IN OUR LIFE





Why does most of the successful millionaire have at least a mentor that they adore and follow every foot steps of them , and why should we have a mentor as well ?
The answer for this particular question is really easy and that is because when we have a mentor in our life that we like or interested in we will achieve or try our best to achieve the same goals and be in the same league as them.

What is a mentor and how should I determine who should I choose to be my mentor ?
The answer is in yourself because mentors comes from a lot of categories and stages for example, if you are interested in music, maybe you could take Shawn Mendes, Justin Bieber, Adele etc. as your role model. If you are into sports maybe football, you could take your favourite footballer that have a clean record and known worldwide as you mentor for example: Cristiano Ronaldo, Messi, or Neymar as your role model to success. Lets said if you are into the entertainment world, you could take Ellen De Generes, Simon Cowell, David William, or James Gorden as your idol to pursue yourself to the world of entertainment ad judgements. And seriously, even if you could not succeed in life like they do at least you know that you could potentially be someone like them because God gives all of us a gift that is either hidden or visible in your mind or through the public eyes, so all you should do is try figuring out and maybe someday later you could be like you fantastic and respectable mentor or idol.
Side notes: Mentors or idol does not always gets related to someone who are famous or talented, because some of the successful people sometimes take their ordinary parents, best friends, teachers or relative as their mentor and obviously, by choosing this categories of mentor you have to be really sure that he or she is worth following or learning from.

Why does every entrepreneur have a mentor?
Being an entrepreneur is tough and I mean really tough because you could go from rich to poor by just a snap of the finger and you could also go from poor into rich in just a split second, so by having a mentor especially for the business people, it could help them in mastering the basic skills and knowledge that the most successful entrepreneur/ business person have. You see, being an entrepreneur needs a lot of courage and mind skills and most of the entrepreneur failed before in their career so that is why some already successful people spends some of their precious time by making or doing speeches and motivation talks for the younger generation to understand more and won't be so easily to get discourage by a little failure that they will or we will eventually faced someday. Here's a few famous and talented entrepreneur or business person that frequently making speech...
AND THAT IS:
DONALD TRUMP,
BILL GATES,
RICHARD BRANSON,
JACK MA,
MARK ZUCKERBERG,
WARREN BUFFETT
If you are interested in their speech... you could find them easily in you tube

How to be a mentor to someone and what's the benefits in it ?
Being a mentor to someone isn't a easy task at all because by being a mentor you should show a perfect, good and respectable example to a individual that would loved to follow every footsteps you take. So in order to guide someone to the right pathway you yourself should act like a professional and teach them all the moral values, hard works and not the dirty quick rich scheme nonsense.
And when someone had took you as their mentor I could assure you that you would feel so good for helping someone to unlock their full potential and discover their hidden gift, well don't you worried for not having your own benefits because there are benefits of your own self and the benefits is you yourself had unlock your potential and had developed a leadership strength so this is a both parties equal advantage.

What should I do if I have a mentor?
Steve jobs always said "STAY FOOLISH, STAY HUNGRY" and that is basically one of the purest reason for you to have a mentor and the meaning of stay foolish = be stupid, don't act smart
stay hungry = never quit learning or wanting to learnt. So its obvious and well stated what should you do if you have or wanting to have a mentor in your life.

To rep this up I will share a story of mine and my story is about all the mentor that I've followed throughout my life basically. My mentor range from tech, business, singer and you tuber so you see that's not little but quite a lot and that is due to the interest that I have, for example when it comes to the tech industry, my favourite mentor is for sure Bill Gates as he had change the whole world and when it comes to be business industry, my mentor is Jack MA as he had give me a lot of motivation and courage (through video) to be a brave person and never be afraid of failure in life. The music industry is pretty interesting because in the time before I was a huge fan of Justin Bieber as I think that he is a really talented singer and like all other teenagers I would memorise all his lyrics and sing it till I became good at it but eventually in my country, its not easy to step into the world of music. And now last but not least is you tube and here is where I have the most mentors ... well when it comes to you tubers I don't follow their footsteps by being a you tuber but what I follow is their creativity ,braveness and their ability to attract more audiences to watch all of their videos especially in the tech and vlogging categories.... if you are wondering who I watch on you tube I would proudy type it out
Here are the following youtubers:
MKBHD(TECH)
UNBOX TERAPY(TECH)
UR AVG CONSUMER(TECH)/COUPLE(VLOGS)
MO'S VLOG
ALPHA M(LIFESTYLE)
AUSTIN EVANS(TECH)
DOM ESPESITO(TECH)
KARL CONRAD(TECH)
JONATHAN MORRISON(TECH)
JOSH PALLER LIN(PRANK/VLOGS)
KSI(GAME/VLOGS)
KURT HUGO SCHNEIDER(MUSIC)
MS TECH
ROB RICHES(FITNESS)
SAABKYLE(CARS)
SHEEMEE(CARS)

THIO JOE(COMEDY/HALF TECH)
WINDING ROAD MEGAZINE(CARS)

Told you its not little, but nomatter what it is they bring joy to me and I love watching their videos every single day and most importantly they have change my life and in the same time my ego and shyness will be long gone because of their braveness whom had inspire me the most.





Monday, 20 June 2016

Why Should You Start Today And Not The Final Moment

The human brains seems to have a talking machines like siri or google now that will tell us to do the things that is not important first and then do the important stuff in the last minute like exams, meeting stuff etc. but at least google now and siri is much more reliable and this order or answer is more beneficial to us. As all that said,I'm no exception because I seems to do my revision or studying the final minute or day before the test/exams starts and I've been regretting it every single time when I started somethings that concerned my future at the very last minute/moment.

So this is the most powerful quote that works every single time for me, well of course I'm sure that this quotes isn't something new and that is "START NOW AND THE FUTURE YOU WILL THANK YOU" And I'm pretty sure that it makes a deep sense and what it stated is the real truth because for the experience that I have encounter and most successful people too (well I'm not saying that I'm successful but just saying that I myself had experience the differences)

Now I will share my short story, OK in one year I will have 4 exams in total and that is 1st semester, mid terms ,3 semester and end of the year test. During the last 2 months test I prepare and doing my revision one day before the exam start and obviously i failed, no credits, get number 12 out out 28 people in my class and from others point of view I totally and  intentionally screwed up my test and to be honest i was shy, feeling stupid as hell when my result sucks so i tell myself that i wanted too changed my grades for god sakes during my next test and that is the mid-terms.
And thankfully my mid-terms had just end last 3 weeks and during that period, I totally spent most of my time studying and doing the revision that I've needed and when i said i prepare early I meant 3 days before exams because i just want too see if there's any changes and mid-terms are one of the most difficult tests that lasted for 3 weeks straight non-stop and yes it helps not a little but a lot and I mean it.My grades wasn't the best but it has improved drastically and this word suits the most. I had 8 credits and that is 1A 4A- 2C+ 1C and for my class ranking I've dropped (improved) from number 12 to a quite OK number 5 with a school ranking of less than half and that's surprised my quite a lot actually. That's my wonderful moment that starting from the day my result was issued or announce I've ask myself almost everyday that why have I've been so lazy and doesn't want to start earlier and be happy later if you get what I meant.

Another story of mine is about working out to keep fit...basically I was in the range of obesity or overweight when I was 13 years old with a BMI of 26 and a half and for your information that is a really unhealthy rate and my friends would always called me fat and obviously weak as well. You might ask why should I be overweight and why didn't you exercise in the first place, alright the answer is simple and stupid and that is I thought I could not lose weight anymore and my life will just be this way (fat, weak, undependable, a loser and all the negativity stuff) but that mindset of mine change when I was 14 years old. During the 14 years old me on that time I was determine to lose weight, be strong, tall, muscular, cool, and feels great, awesome about my self.So like all the aesthetics people we starts from low level to some hardcore level and my first workout is push up and during the push up workout I've founded my talent and that is doing 60 push ups in 1 minute and that is like 1 push ups 1 second and I admit that I'm showing off now but its a reality that I'm the best at push ups in my whole school and basically the teacher could not even believe that i could do that much as most of my school athletics could not do that much.OK lets cut the crap now and yes I've made it, just in a short 7 months of non stop training my BMI level drop from 26 and a half to 24(upper fit) during that moment I was so proud of myself and I told myself to never give up anytime soon and I've kept my promised to my self, for that in the age of 15 my BMI had shrink from 24 to a whopping 22 (perfectly healthy fit) and that is all thanks to the motivations from most you tube trainers and quotes from the worldwide search engine google.

So for closure, I'm saying that we should never start when its too late because regrets is just  in front of you if you don't take any actions to change the future of yours. Don't believe in my story, experience, than its OK but just try to do it because the ancient word is always right and that is "YOU NEVER TRY YOU NEVER FAILED, AND IF YOU NEVER TRIED YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHETHER OR NOT IF YOU WILL PASSED"so just never give up on trying, life is all about exploring, doing and failing or succeeding.

And all that said I wish every single one of you out there to be more aware and do well on every single things you do and be the generations of success.




Friday, 3 June 2016

WHY SHOULD YOU WORK IN A JOB YOU LIKED



Some of our ambitions, dreams, and future planning are in our parents or relative hand. They seems to plan out everything and when we said that we are interested in some jobs or profession they would seems to discourage you and stated all the negativity about that particular job. So are you the one who get controlled for your own future? If the answer is yes than I'm sorry and don't worry because this is not the end and all you got to do is to stand up for your self and learnt to said NO!!! to someone for the sake of yourself. But if the answer is No than congratulation as you have full control for your own choice and nobody is mentally forcing you.

OK I tell you a story of a family that are all doctors from the past generation till now and there are a son of them that said to their parents that he wanted to be a businessman, and obviously his parents objected and said that "You would change our family tradition, and they will said that businessman is to much of a risk or businessman can't save life's etc." basically all the negative ideas that they (the parents) could think of. Eventually, his son agreed (not sincerely) to be a doctor just like all of his family. After a couple of tough and forceful medical university coarse, internship and houseman ship he totally rather want to give up his career and fall into a deep depression and frequently fainted due to large amount of stress and long working hours and the normal on-call in the emergency 4 to 5 times every single night and there's no need to mention the day as well. But while comparing with other doctor(his colleague)that done the exact same job as him they are perfectly fine, happy, energise almost in every working condition. Through a few good weeks of thinking and brain cracking he lend his resignation letter to the owner (his father) and just walked out of there and does not care about others thinking and bravely took on a business in real estate master degree with scholarship due to his flying colour grade and perfect curriculum score during his high school year.And surprisingly he is a successful person that had own more property than any of his ex colleague (THE DOCTORS) and own a few sports and luxury car such as a Ferrari 458, Lamborghini hurricane, Mercedes S Class AMG and a BMW 7 series  and a few super bike ranging from Ducati to Harley Davidson but that's not the important things because the most important things is his happier than before and ever.

Through this short story I'm not asking you to not follow your parents instruction but all I wanted to said is that you should follow your own instinct when trying to make a decision when its related to your long term life and just do it and ignore all criticism because that's basically how pop star became famous and TV host like ELLEN DE GENERES, JIMMY FALLON and OPRAH WINFREY to be so famous and well-known worldwide just by hosting their own TV shows.And just always remember, look for a job that you are interested it and not because of the title and salary.Because once you fall in love with your job without taking title and salary in mind that both words will eventually pop up in your desk and bank account that's what all currently the successful people such as RICHARD BRANSON (co-founder of Virgin Group),BILL GATES (co-founder of Microsoft INC.) etc.

Note: Success is not always got to do with earning a tons of money, living in a big mansion and driving a luxury car everyday but success is actually something that you are passionate about and willing to work till you old. So if your dream is to be a successful you tuber, blogger, dancer, bodyguard, painter and paint the ocean and scenery every day just go ahead as that's a success in your mind so there's no need to hesitate and start trying.

So young ladies and young gentleman, I believe that you will make a good choice by choosing your profession and with a sincere heart. I also believe that you will eventually be more successful than most of the people that judge you by the standard of a career.