WHY SHOULD WE HAVE A MENTOR IN OUR LIFE

Why does most of the successful millionaire have at least a mentor that they adore and follow every foot steps of them , and why should we have a mentor as well ?
The answer for this particular question is really easy and that is because when we have a mentor in our life that we like or interested in we will achieve or try our best to achieve the same goals and be in the same league as them.

What is a mentor and how should I determine who should I choose to be my mentor ?
The answer is in yourself because mentors comes from a lot of categories and stages for example, if you are interested in music, maybe you could take Shawn Mendes, Justin Bieber, Adele etc. as your role model. If you are into sports maybe football, you could take your favourite footballer that have a clean record and known worldwide as you mentor for example: Cristiano Ronaldo, Messi, or Neymar as your role model to success. Lets said if you are into the entertainment world, you could take Ellen De Generes, Simon Cowell, David William, or James Gorden as your idol to pursue yourself to the world of entertainment ad judgements. And seriously, even if you could not succeed in life like they do at least you know that you could potentially be someone like them because God gives all of us a gift that is either hidden or visible in your mind or through the public eyes, so all you should do is try figuring out and maybe someday later you could be like you fantastic and respectable mentor or idol.
Side notes: Mentors or idol does not always gets related to someone who are famous or talented, because some of the successful people sometimes take their ordinary parents, best friends, teachers or relative as their mentor and obviously, by choosing this categories of mentor you have to be really sure that he or she is worth following or learning from.

Why does every entrepreneur have a mentor?
Being an entrepreneur is tough and I mean really tough because you could go from rich to poor by just a snap of the finger and you could also go from poor into rich in just a split second, so by having a mentor especially for the business people, it could help them in mastering the basic skills and knowledge that the most successful entrepreneur/ business person have. You see, being an entrepreneur needs a lot of courage and mind skills and most of the entrepreneur failed before in their career so that is why some already successful people spends some of their precious time by making or doing speeches and motivation talks for the younger generation to understand more and won't be so easily to get discourage by a little failure that they will or we will eventually faced someday. Here's a few famous and talented entrepreneur or business person that frequently making speech...
AND THAT IS:
DONALD TRUMP,
BILL GATES,
RICHARD BRANSON,
JACK MA,
MARK ZUCKERBERG,
WARREN BUFFETT
If you are interested in their speech... you could find them easily in you tube

How to be a mentor to someone and what's the benefits in it ?
Being a mentor to someone isn't a easy task at all because by being a mentor you should show a perfect, good and respectable example to a individual that would loved to follow every footsteps you take. So in order to guide someone to the right pathway you yourself should act like a professional and teach them all the moral values, hard works and not the dirty quick rich scheme nonsense.
And when someone had took you as their mentor I could assure you that you would feel so good for helping someone to unlock their full potential and discover their hidden gift, well don't you worried for not having your own benefits because there are benefits of your own self and the benefits is you yourself had unlock your potential and had developed a leadership strength so this is a both parties equal advantage.

What should I do if I have a mentor?
Steve jobs always said "STAY FOOLISH, STAY HUNGRY" and that is basically one of the purest reason for you to have a mentor and the meaning of stay foolish = be stupid, don't act smart
stay hungry = never quit learning or wanting to learnt. So its obvious and well stated what should you do if you have or wanting to have a mentor in your life.

To rep this up I will share a story of mine and my story is about all the mentor that I've followed throughout my life basically. My mentor range from tech, business, singer and you tuber so you see that's not little but quite a lot and that is due to the interest that I have, for example when it comes to the tech industry, my favourite mentor is for sure Bill Gates as he had change the whole world and when it comes to be business industry, my mentor is Jack MA as he had give me a lot of motivation and courage (through video) to be a brave person and never be afraid of failure in life. The music industry is pretty interesting because in the time before I was a huge fan of Justin Bieber as I think that he is a really talented singer and like all other teenagers I would memorise all his lyrics and sing it till I became good at it but eventually in my country, its not easy to step into the world of music. And now last but not least is you tube and here is where I have the most mentors ... well when it comes to you tubers I don't follow their footsteps by being a you tuber but what I follow is their creativity ,braveness and their ability to attract more audiences to watch all of their videos especially in the tech and vlogging categories.... if you are wondering who I watch on you tube I would proudy type it out
Here are the following youtubers:
MKBHD(TECH)
UNBOX TERAPY(TECH)
UR AVG CONSUMER(TECH)/COUPLE(VLOGS)
MO'S VLOG
ALPHA M(LIFESTYLE)
AUSTIN EVANS(TECH)
DOM ESPESITO(TECH)
KARL CONRAD(TECH)
JONATHAN MORRISON(TECH)
JOSH PALLER LIN(PRANK/VLOGS)
KSI(GAME/VLOGS)
KURT HUGO SCHNEIDER(MUSIC)
MS TECH
ROB RICHES(FITNESS)
SAABKYLE(CARS)
SHEEMEE(CARS)
THIO JOE(COMEDY/HALF TECH)
WINDING ROAD MEGAZINE(CARS)

Told you its not little, but nomatter what it is they bring joy to me and I love watching their videos every single day and most importantly they have change my life and in the same time my ego and shyness will be long gone because of their braveness whom had inspire me the most.

Why Should You Start Today And Not The Final Moment

The human brains seems to have a talking machines like siri or google now that will tell us to do the things that is not important first and then do the important stuff in the last minute like exams, meeting stuff etc. but at least google now and siri is much more reliable and this order or answer is more beneficial to us. As all that said,I'm no exception because I seems to do my revision or studying the final minute or day before the test/exams starts and I've been regretting it every single time when I started somethings that concerned my future at the very last minute/moment.

So this is the most powerful quote that works every single time for me, well of course I'm sure that this quotes isn't something new and that is "START NOW AND THE FUTURE YOU WILL THANK YOU" And I'm pretty sure that it makes a deep sense and what it stated is the real truth because for the experience that I have encounter and most successful people too (well I'm not saying that I'm successful but just saying that I myself had experience the differences)

Now I will share my short story, OK in one year I will have 4 exams in total and that is 1st semester, mid terms ,3 semester and end of the year test. During the last 2 months test I prepare and doing my revision one day before the exam start and obviously i failed, no credits, get number 12 out out 28 people in my class and from others point of view I totally and  intentionally screwed up my test and to be honest i was shy, feeling stupid as hell when my result sucks so i tell myself that i wanted too changed my grades for god sakes during my next test and that is the mid-terms.
And thankfully my mid-terms had just end last 3 weeks and during that period, I totally spent most of my time studying and doing the revision that I've needed and when i said i prepare early I meant 3 days before exams because i just want too see if there's any changes and mid-terms are one of the most difficult tests that lasted for 3 weeks straight non-stop and yes it helps not a little but a lot and I mean it.My grades wasn't the best but it has improved drastically and this word suits the most. I had 8 credits and that is 1A 4A- 2C+ 1C and for my class ranking I've dropped (improved) from number 12 to a quite OK number 5 with a school ranking of less than half and that's surprised my quite a lot actually. That's my wonderful moment that starting from the day my result was issued or announce I've ask myself almost everyday that why have I've been so lazy and doesn't want to start earlier and be happy later if you get what I meant.

Another story of mine is about working out to keep fit...basically I was in the range of obesity or overweight when I was 13 years old with a BMI of 26 and a half and for your information that is a really unhealthy rate and my friends would always called me fat and obviously weak as well. You might ask why should I be overweight and why didn't you exercise in the first place, alright the answer is simple and stupid and that is I thought I could not lose weight anymore and my life will just be this way (fat, weak, undependable, a loser and all the negativity stuff) but that mindset of mine change when I was 14 years old. During the 14 years old me on that time I was determine to lose weight, be strong, tall, muscular, cool, and feels great, awesome about my self.So like all the aesthetics people we starts from low level to some hardcore level and my first workout is push up and during the push up workout I've founded my talent and that is doing 60 push ups in 1 minute and that is like 1 push ups 1 second and I admit that I'm showing off now but its a reality that I'm the best at push ups in my whole school and basically the teacher could not even believe that i could do that much as most of my school athletics could not do that much.OK lets cut the crap now and yes I've made it, just in a short 7 months of non stop training my BMI level drop from 26 and a half to 24(upper fit) during that moment I was so proud of myself and I told myself to never give up anytime soon and I've kept my promised to my self, for that in the age of 15 my BMI had shrink from 24 to a whopping 22 (perfectly healthy fit) and that is all thanks to the motivations from most you tube trainers and quotes from the worldwide search engine google.

So for closure, I'm saying that we should never start when its too late because regrets is just  in front of you if you don't take any actions to change the future of yours. Don't believe in my story, experience, than its OK but just try to do it because the ancient word is always right and that is "YOU NEVER TRY YOU NEVER FAILED, AND IF YOU NEVER TRIED YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHETHER OR NOT IF YOU WILL PASSED"so just never give up on trying, life is all about exploring, doing and failing or succeeding.

And all that said I wish every single one of you out there to be more aware and do well on every single things you do and be the generations of success.

BENEFITS OF SLEEPING AND HOW TO SLEEP EARLY

Sleep is probably one of the best ways to cure most illness and could even change your mental state to a much healthier level .Sleep is also basically the only things we as humans will think of doing in the morning right by the time we been force to wake up because of school,work or other event.Our mind will keep bugging us and telling us to get back to bed but if we fight that voice in our mind it will sense it and change the whole dialogue and control your mouth and said "I'm going to sleep early today and I mean it".When the night comes, we just became so hyperactive and could barely fall into sleep due too the late night shows or movies and our modern technologist whom could not stop attracting us to view it and check on it.So here are the best ways you should try doing during the night to keep your promise to yourself during the morning.

1.Don't drink coffee/consume caffeine
I'm a non coffee drinker because it causes anxiety and over thinking, but this does not occur in everyone so don't worried. And the reason why you should not drink coffee during the night is because coffee keeps you awake due to the caffeine that contain in it. For you who does not know alot about how caffeine works. Here's how: caffeine works by changing the chemistry of our brain function and activities. It blocks the activity of a natural functioning brain chemical that is got to do with sleep. So in simple way to explain, our brain is basically awake by the drugs contain from the caffeine in the coffee. Alright some food also contain a small amount of caffeine so try to avoid it as well.Here are example of food you should not eat before sleep :CHOCOLATE

2.Keep your technology far away from you
Unless you are using alarm from your phone, you should keep it far away from you. If you don't want to do that, its totally fine and understandable, but you could do something about it, that is just try to not checking on your phone while you are about to sleep, this is because your phone  will distract you and the blue light from your phone could make you even more awake. OK OK I understand that maybe you would have a important message or what so ever and you got to view and check on it, and there's a solution for it. And the solution for not letting blue light from technology be able to get into your eyes and damage it is by using or activating NIGHT SHIFT for I phone or you could download TWILIGHT for android (free).This functions would filter the blue light and tint it to a more relaxing red filter to make your eyes feel more pleasant.

3.Read a book/newspaper
Reading something that used paper that don't produce any harmful light would make you fall into sleep better, quickly, and more peacefully. This is because our eyes is using most of it force to read the tiny words and it will lose its energy and telling you that its time to turn off the light. If some of you have insomnia you have come to the right place because I'm glad to said that studies shows that a patient with insomnia could fall into sleep much more easier and faster by reading. So lucky you too still have a chance to appreciate the miracle of sleep.

4.Don't smoke or drink
Lets talk about smocking first, some of the people out there thinks that smocking could release stress or tension but actually the nicotine in there is just a stimulants that will make you feel better for a short while but the bad effect will follow you throughout your whole entire life. Now about alcohol, most of us think that drinking before sleep could make you feel more tired and easy to sleep but that's wrong, because in reality alcohol could cause slight depression and INSOMNIA so try your very best to quit that not only because of sleep but for your life as well

So ladies and gentleman,  that is all what you should and should not do before sleep and of course there are still so many more ways but this is probably one of the most common mistakes that we do and did not do before bed.Now you might feel really lazy to follow all this steps but wait till you hear the benefits or sleeping and that will change your mind in a click of a finger.

LIST FOR BENEFITS OF SLEEPING
1.Lose weight
2.Look great
3.Reduce pigment
4.Brain booster
5.Dark eyes circle reduction
6.Cure sickness
7.Look younger
8.Reduce acne
9.Grow taller
10.Energy provider

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO IF YOU GET BACKSTABBED BY SOMEONE YOU TRUSTED

What is back stabbed? The word Back stabbed have a lot of meaning and one of the most well-known meaning is taking a knife and stabbed into a individual back but there's another meaning that is betrayed or bad mouthing behind someone.So with all that said do you ever get back stabbed by someone you trusted,maybe from your family members,best friend,classmates, or co-workers?If your answer is a yes,I'm sorry but I  totally understand how you feel and I've experience it so many time but just its not from family(this hurts the most), or co-worker,but friend is yes.And sadly its not only once or twist but so many times that I couldn't really remember how many times is it.The feeling sucks and the consequences are even worst because you will have to recover from your shattered heart,accept the reality and faced the facts that someone who listen to the slander will start to misunderstand you.But don't be sad or think that your life isn't worth it because when there's a way in there's always a way out and it will take time to find your way out from the maze runner game but just in a more sad situation rather than scary and exciting.OK this is a few tips of overcoming this very hard time but I won't be 100% guaranteed that it will help or succeed but why not give it a try because as my idol 'RICHARD ST.JOHN' always said:you never try,you never failed,in the same time you will never succeed if you never try.So here are the way and all of this following tips are same and is not following any order.

1.LET GO AND FORGIVE
If you never learn to forgive,you will never ever release yourself from the prison that you had locked yourself into. Forgiving does not mean that you will forget the incident instantly or have to stay as a friend with him or her but forgiving is actually for your own good because when someone has done something bad don't worried because one day they will get the retribution and punishment that they deserve but in a legal way so there's no need to was you time and energy to make yourself angrier and mood down all the time.Remember life is short be happy always and ignore the things that does not concerned you or your life and focus on what's meaningful and got to do with your success.

2.STAND STILL AND STRONG
Don't let other people misunderstanding be the reason you give up your career, education or even life, because always remember god give you life, and in life everyone will faced the bad event or in other word an unwanted event more than 1 time in their life so remember that you are not facing this hard and tough time alone as their are people that faced something even worst everyday but still have the faith to not giving up on their life and move on till the end of time. OK if your own best friend   misunderstand you, you should start to open your eyes and mind wider and be aware that he or she does not deserve to be your friend and you should start to cut the ties. Just note that having no friends is actually not a bad things so its OK not to have any friends.

3.CONFRONT THE BACKSTABBER
There must be a reason for someone to back stabbed you and most of the time the reason is due to jealousy and misunderstand but it is still better to ask so that it will be clearer and the both of you could cure things up and start afresh.Note:during the conversation,never ever be rude or using a high tone as it will only make the situation worst and even thought you did nothing wrong but once you raise your voice and using drastic word other people will suspect that the lie is real.Another note:listen first of what the respondent wanted to said and not just interrupting half way because that will change the emotion of the respondent to be from cool to frustrated.

4.TAKE THIS AS A LESSON
I know you might have not done anything wrong but still,you should take this as a life lesson to not believe in someone outside from your comfort zone(family,relative) so easily.Of course I'm not saying to not have a close friend or act everyone as your enemy or what so ever,but all I wanted to said is just to be more careful.Actually want to know what someone who back stabbed you is actually more likely to be the one who is closer to you and know most of your weakness and this is based in my experience.

5.TELL SOMEONE (BE HONEST)
Definitely not everyone lost believe in you, so for the one who did not lost any believe in you, try to confront them and tell them the truth and that you had been framed or get bad mouth by some individual and I'm sure that they will understand and lend you a hand to bring back your justice and dignity. If no one believe in you (with don't happen frequently but it could happen) remember there's always a family member who are ready to lent a listening ear to you. Why be honest? the answer is once you lied you won't feel good or peace and in reality you are back stabbing others as well so you are basically no different from the low level (not serious)  perpetrator. So be honest and it will be easier to clear your innocent name.

6.LET YOUR ANGER OUT
So let it all out but not letting your anger out by: smocking, drinking alcohol, doing illegal activities, commit a crime, doing illegal drugs because that will totally make the situation worst for you and your life as well because most of the following are something that will only make you feel good for a tiny while but the pain and sadness will last forever,so remember just never ever get into all that crime because its not worth it and not even the slighter's bit.So now you might ask how should I release all my anger? Here's how
1.Use a stress relief toys, squeeze it, punch it, kick it do whatever you want with it but don't hurt yourself
2.Listening to music depending on your likings.Note:Don't listen it with a high volume if using headphone as it will damage your hearing.If you are using a speaker or a boom box remember to check on you neighbours.
3.Go to the gym, in the gym there are a tons of friendly people who you can interact with without feeling awkward or shy,in the gym there are also a punching bag that you could punch till you feel good.NOTE:Make sure that you have no medical record such as heart problem,breathing problem or bone problem as that will be dangerous and for safety purpose, do consult your family doctor first.


So there you go 6 of my best tips to overcome this sad and angry moment in life. As closure I'm going to said that I believe in all of you and I know the reason you read this blog is because you had been back stabbed but remember you are never alone in this world there are always someone who you can believe in and there are also always someone who will help you so don't worried and live your life happily.

HOW TO BE AWESOME

Being awesome isn't always got to do with having a super power , a genius brain,or bank full of money ,because everyone in this world including you are gifted with a special something.If you still couldn't figure out what are you gifted with but really want to be a awesome guy or girls and for sure there are more tips than this but here are a few of the most noticeable and less common once ,so lets not wasting any more time here are 5 useful and beneficial to life tips.

1.BE KIND TO EVERYONE

Nothing is more awesome than being kind to everyone without caring about whats their religion,races,or family background because remember every human are the same whether someone is white,brown or black they are still human and they have feelings, they have the same body organs as us so never look down.Being kind to others also include not being a selfish person when it comes to helping and trust me helping others will make you be much more happier than getting something you really wanted.

2.BE CONFIDENT

People that are awesome is always confident on their decision and they will not care about any criticism or discouragement from any individual.Awesome people will also be confident when facing a big crowd,a very important person, or even going for a job interview.Be confident of yourself always because nobody can have the awesomeness the way that you have so show it and don't feel discourage no matter what the circumstances are.

3.MORAL VALUE

Always hold onto the moral values of life,in example of moral value is be rational is one of the most important value to hold on as.The meaning of rational is thinking before acting and this is it one of the best value because if we never never think before act we might hurt someone feeling and that's not awesome .

4.BE PASSIONATE

Be extra passionate on what you do,prove to the world that you could make a history like no others,love what you doing,love your job and I'm sure that you could be awesome by this way.Well don't ever bother about what other said as people normally hate people that are successful than them so be proud if someone hates you because for sure they have a reason for doing so and the reason is no other than 'JEALOUS'

5.BE INDEPENDENT

Awesome comes from the sense of being independent and not depending on others all the time.If someone always depends on their parents or friends even for the smallest matter,outsider or other people will call the 'someone' as a spoiled brat or a looser that will never be able to faced the world alone and I'm pretty sure that you would not want to be looked as that way.So as most of the successful people said start today and the future you will thank you,but if you start the the very last munite I'm sure that the tomorrow you will hate you till his or her very last bone.


Lets rep this up,ladies and gentleman,I'm sure that all of you is someone whom is awesome in your own ways and i hoped the best for you to succeed in being as awesome as possible

WAYS TO MAKE YOURSELF MORE ATTRACTIVE

Gentleman,making yourself to looked more attractive among pretty girl doesn't always have to do with your look,body shape,vocal or height.So don't get let down because you are not perfect or good looking because nobody are perfect,but theres somethings you can do to make yourself look attractive to the pretty girls eyes and inner heart.So lets not wasting any time this is the powerful tips to be more attractive *-*.

1.DRESS SMARTLY

Please don't tell me that you are going to date a girl by wearing ugly shirt,dirty shoes,and messy hair....because if you do that for sure i mean 100% sure that you are going too get rejected badly.So as what I've said,its OK not to have the look,height,abs etc. because in reality your appearance is the one that matters the most.
Here are some extra tips before heading out for a date:
1.Brush your teeth(make sure its clean,white,and smells good)
2.Style your hair properly and attractively
3.Wear neatly and smartly(don't wear unwashed cloths or pants)
4.Put on some cologne/perfumes  (make sure it smells good and not fishy)
5.Smile(don't make a annoying face or you will scare your date off)

2.BE POLITE

Especially to the waiter or waitress,in our eyes they might just be a worker but we should treat them humanly as well so that our date will know that we are a polite person and worth respecting in anyways so don't think that its cool to be rude or you will regret
HOW SHOULD YOU TREAT A WAITER/WAITRESS TO BE MORE RESPECTED
1.Raise your hand to called,not shouting or whistling
2.Say thank you always
3.Say sorry when a sudden change of your order occur
4.Give tips(don't have to be much but show your appreciation)

3.OPEN THE DOOR FOR HER(FOR MAN)

Opening the door its a mixed between being a gentleman and a kind person as well so guys......
open the door for your date.Alright not only the door but even the chairs pull it out and push it in for her trust me she will feels like a princess and her heart and mind will said that you are the right guy for her.
EXAMPLE OF THINGS TO HELP:
1.Open the car door,house door,restaurant door,shopping mall door(if not automatic)for her
2.Pull out the chair and push in the chair for her always in the restaurant
3.Carry her bag for her

4.BUY FLOWERS

Buy her flowers (Roses are recommended as it will make her heart blooms as well as how the flower does)of course roses are recommended if you don't know what kind or categories of flowers she like.
If you don't want to buy flower here are a few life hacks to choose the best colour for your girl
1.Buy a flower that match her her car colour
2.Buy a flower that match her dress colour
3.Buy a flower that match her room colour

5.DON'T SHOW OFF(BE HUMBLE)

Don't show off your fortune,your money,your car,your house of whatever you are able to show off to her.Because girl hates this kind of guy as they called a materialistic kind off person.Showing off does not make you look richer or cooler but in the flip side it will make you look like a jerk and a looser .

In conclusion,i believe that all of you out there is a attractive, handsome and a well rounded person and i wish you all the best of luck to find your dream girl and future life partner

HOW TO DEVELOP A PRODUCTIVE MORNING ROUTINE

The sound of the  phone alarm could be the worst feeling ever and waking up much more early than you wanted too feels like.... And I know because i feel it too (before) :( But sometimes theres no other choices because some of us humans have to go to school in the morning and some to work. But you want too know what i've been waking up every morning at 6a.m and back then i hated myself for waking up so early but after implementing a few tips yepp it help me and now morning is the best time for me to be productive and more alert so this is what you should do to make your morning more productive morning routine without feeling annoyed

1.DRINK A GLASS OF WATER

Drink a glass of water first thing in the morning,this is because water could boost your foggy morning brain and make you think more efficent and productive.Studies shown that its good for your heart too if you consume at least a glass of water in the morning so theres a bad news (no cold water)yea i know it sucks to drink room tempreture but for the sake of your health i guess you should just follow XD!!

2.DO LIGHT EXERCISE

Why light and not heavy??Well you would not want your tired body to sore right?so just do light workout in the morning you could do it while waiting for your bread to toast or whatever.
Example of light exercise:10-20 jumping jacks,10 push ups,1 munite of plank,or jog in place for 1 munite (choose only 1 or 2 of the followings).Doing light workout can lead to a more happier day and won't feel tired during the day.

3.READ

Reading in the moring is more efective then in the afternoon it helps more in memorizing and understanding that is why successful people like bill gates reads in the morning and we should too.

4.BREAKFAST

I hate eating breakfast in the morning but i force myself to at least drink a cup of hot chocolate to fill in my empty stomach so that i can think better throughout my day and feel more energize and you should too u will see the difference of it.

5.SET A GOAL

Set a goal for tomorrow before you sleep every night and when you wake up in the morning you will find it easier too wake up and of course you will also developed a fun,excting and productive day.I do that everyday but even when i did not accomplish my goals i won't feel sad or wanting to give up but i will try to accomplish the same goal at the next day.

QUOTE:"WAKE UP EVERYDAY STRONGER THAN YESTERDAY,FACE YOUR FEAR"