WHY SHOULD YOU WORK IN A JOB YOU LIKED

Some of our ambitions, dreams, and future planning are in our parents or relative hand. They seems to plan out everything and when we said that we are interested in some jobs or profession they would seems to discourage you and stated all the negativity about that particular job. So are you the one who get controlled for your own future? If the answer is yes than I'm sorry and don't worry because this is not the end and all you got to do is to stand up for your self and learnt to said NO!!! to someone for the sake of yourself. But if the answer is No than congratulation as you have full control for your own choice and nobody is mentally forcing you.

OK I tell you a story of a family that are all doctors from the past generation till now and there are a son of them that said to their parents that he wanted to be a businessman, and obviously his parents objected and said that "You would change our family tradition, and they will said that businessman is to much of a risk or businessman can't save life's etc." basically all the negative ideas that they (the parents) could think of. Eventually, his son agreed (not sincerely) to be a doctor just like all of his family. After a couple of tough and forceful medical university coarse, internship and houseman ship he totally rather want to give up his career and fall into a deep depression and frequently fainted due to large amount of stress and long working hours and the normal on-call in the emergency 4 to 5 times every single night and there's no need to mention the day as well. But while comparing with other doctor(his colleague)that done the exact same job as him they are perfectly fine, happy, energise almost in every working condition. Through a few good weeks of thinking and brain cracking he lend his resignation letter to the owner (his father) and just walked out of there and does not care about others thinking and bravely took on a business in real estate master degree with scholarship due to his flying colour grade and perfect curriculum score during his high school year.And surprisingly he is a successful person that had own more property than any of his ex colleague (THE DOCTORS) and own a few sports and luxury car such as a Ferrari 458, Lamborghini hurricane, Mercedes S Class AMG and a BMW 7 series  and a few super bike ranging from Ducati to Harley Davidson but that's not the important things because the most important things is his happier than before and ever.

Through this short story I'm not asking you to not follow your parents instruction but all I wanted to said is that you should follow your own instinct when trying to make a decision when its related to your long term life and just do it and ignore all criticism because that's basically how pop star became famous and TV host like ELLEN DE GENERES, JIMMY FALLON and OPRAH WINFREY to be so famous and well-known worldwide just by hosting their own TV shows.And just always remember, look for a job that you are interested it and not because of the title and salary.Because once you fall in love with your job without taking title and salary in mind that both words will eventually pop up in your desk and bank account that's what all currently the successful people such as RICHARD BRANSON (co-founder of Virgin Group),BILL GATES (co-founder of Microsoft INC.) etc.

Note: Success is not always got to do with earning a tons of money, living in a big mansion and driving a luxury car everyday but success is actually something that you are passionate about and willing to work till you old. So if your dream is to be a successful you tuber, blogger, dancer, bodyguard, painter and paint the ocean and scenery every day just go ahead as that's a success in your mind so there's no need to hesitate and start trying.

So young ladies and young gentleman, I believe that you will make a good choice by choosing your profession and with a sincere heart. I also believe that you will eventually be more successful than most of the people that judge you by the standard of a career.

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO IF YOU GET BACKSTABBED BY SOMEONE YOU TRUSTED

What is back stabbed? The word Back stabbed have a lot of meaning and one of the most well-known meaning is taking a knife and stabbed into a individual back but there's another meaning that is betrayed or bad mouthing behind someone.So with all that said do you ever get back stabbed by someone you trusted,maybe from your family members,best friend,classmates, or co-workers?If your answer is a yes,I'm sorry but I  totally understand how you feel and I've experience it so many time but just its not from family(this hurts the most), or co-worker,but friend is yes.And sadly its not only once or twist but so many times that I couldn't really remember how many times is it.The feeling sucks and the consequences are even worst because you will have to recover from your shattered heart,accept the reality and faced the facts that someone who listen to the slander will start to misunderstand you.But don't be sad or think that your life isn't worth it because when there's a way in there's always a way out and it will take time to find your way out from the maze runner game but just in a more sad situation rather than scary and exciting.OK this is a few tips of overcoming this very hard time but I won't be 100% guaranteed that it will help or succeed but why not give it a try because as my idol 'RICHARD ST.JOHN' always said:you never try,you never failed,in the same time you will never succeed if you never try.So here are the way and all of this following tips are same and is not following any order.

1.LET GO AND FORGIVE
If you never learn to forgive,you will never ever release yourself from the prison that you had locked yourself into. Forgiving does not mean that you will forget the incident instantly or have to stay as a friend with him or her but forgiving is actually for your own good because when someone has done something bad don't worried because one day they will get the retribution and punishment that they deserve but in a legal way so there's no need to was you time and energy to make yourself angrier and mood down all the time.Remember life is short be happy always and ignore the things that does not concerned you or your life and focus on what's meaningful and got to do with your success.

2.STAND STILL AND STRONG
Don't let other people misunderstanding be the reason you give up your career, education or even life, because always remember god give you life, and in life everyone will faced the bad event or in other word an unwanted event more than 1 time in their life so remember that you are not facing this hard and tough time alone as their are people that faced something even worst everyday but still have the faith to not giving up on their life and move on till the end of time. OK if your own best friend   misunderstand you, you should start to open your eyes and mind wider and be aware that he or she does not deserve to be your friend and you should start to cut the ties. Just note that having no friends is actually not a bad things so its OK not to have any friends.

3.CONFRONT THE BACKSTABBER
There must be a reason for someone to back stabbed you and most of the time the reason is due to jealousy and misunderstand but it is still better to ask so that it will be clearer and the both of you could cure things up and start afresh.Note:during the conversation,never ever be rude or using a high tone as it will only make the situation worst and even thought you did nothing wrong but once you raise your voice and using drastic word other people will suspect that the lie is real.Another note:listen first of what the respondent wanted to said and not just interrupting half way because that will change the emotion of the respondent to be from cool to frustrated.

4.TAKE THIS AS A LESSON
I know you might have not done anything wrong but still,you should take this as a life lesson to not believe in someone outside from your comfort zone(family,relative) so easily.Of course I'm not saying to not have a close friend or act everyone as your enemy or what so ever,but all I wanted to said is just to be more careful.Actually want to know what someone who back stabbed you is actually more likely to be the one who is closer to you and know most of your weakness and this is based in my experience.

5.TELL SOMEONE (BE HONEST)
Definitely not everyone lost believe in you, so for the one who did not lost any believe in you, try to confront them and tell them the truth and that you had been framed or get bad mouth by some individual and I'm sure that they will understand and lend you a hand to bring back your justice and dignity. If no one believe in you (with don't happen frequently but it could happen) remember there's always a family member who are ready to lent a listening ear to you. Why be honest? the answer is once you lied you won't feel good or peace and in reality you are back stabbing others as well so you are basically no different from the low level (not serious)  perpetrator. So be honest and it will be easier to clear your innocent name.

6.LET YOUR ANGER OUT
So let it all out but not letting your anger out by: smocking, drinking alcohol, doing illegal activities, commit a crime, doing illegal drugs because that will totally make the situation worst for you and your life as well because most of the following are something that will only make you feel good for a tiny while but the pain and sadness will last forever,so remember just never ever get into all that crime because its not worth it and not even the slighter's bit.So now you might ask how should I release all my anger? Here's how
1.Use a stress relief toys, squeeze it, punch it, kick it do whatever you want with it but don't hurt yourself
2.Listening to music depending on your likings.Note:Don't listen it with a high volume if using headphone as it will damage your hearing.If you are using a speaker or a boom box remember to check on you neighbours.
3.Go to the gym, in the gym there are a tons of friendly people who you can interact with without feeling awkward or shy,in the gym there are also a punching bag that you could punch till you feel good.NOTE:Make sure that you have no medical record such as heart problem,breathing problem or bone problem as that will be dangerous and for safety purpose, do consult your family doctor first.


So there you go 6 of my best tips to overcome this sad and angry moment in life. As closure I'm going to said that I believe in all of you and I know the reason you read this blog is because you had been back stabbed but remember you are never alone in this world there are always someone who you can believe in and there are also always someone who will help you so don't worried and live your life happily.

HOW TO BE AWESOME

Being awesome isn't always got to do with having a super power , a genius brain,or bank full of money ,because everyone in this world including you are gifted with a special something.If you still couldn't figure out what are you gifted with but really want to be a awesome guy or girls and for sure there are more tips than this but here are a few of the most noticeable and less common once ,so lets not wasting any more time here are 5 useful and beneficial to life tips.

1.BE KIND TO EVERYONE

Nothing is more awesome than being kind to everyone without caring about whats their religion,races,or family background because remember every human are the same whether someone is white,brown or black they are still human and they have feelings, they have the same body organs as us so never look down.Being kind to others also include not being a selfish person when it comes to helping and trust me helping others will make you be much more happier than getting something you really wanted.

2.BE CONFIDENT

People that are awesome is always confident on their decision and they will not care about any criticism or discouragement from any individual.Awesome people will also be confident when facing a big crowd,a very important person, or even going for a job interview.Be confident of yourself always because nobody can have the awesomeness the way that you have so show it and don't feel discourage no matter what the circumstances are.

3.MORAL VALUE

Always hold onto the moral values of life,in example of moral value is be rational is one of the most important value to hold on as.The meaning of rational is thinking before acting and this is it one of the best value because if we never never think before act we might hurt someone feeling and that's not awesome .

4.BE PASSIONATE

Be extra passionate on what you do,prove to the world that you could make a history like no others,love what you doing,love your job and I'm sure that you could be awesome by this way.Well don't ever bother about what other said as people normally hate people that are successful than them so be proud if someone hates you because for sure they have a reason for doing so and the reason is no other than 'JEALOUS'

5.BE INDEPENDENT

Awesome comes from the sense of being independent and not depending on others all the time.If someone always depends on their parents or friends even for the smallest matter,outsider or other people will call the 'someone' as a spoiled brat or a looser that will never be able to faced the world alone and I'm pretty sure that you would not want to be looked as that way.So as most of the successful people said start today and the future you will thank you,but if you start the the very last munite I'm sure that the tomorrow you will hate you till his or her very last bone.


Lets rep this up,ladies and gentleman,I'm sure that all of you is someone whom is awesome in your own ways and i hoped the best for you to succeed in being as awesome as possible

WAYS TO MAKE YOURSELF MORE ATTRACTIVE

Gentleman,making yourself to looked more attractive among pretty girl doesn't always have to do with your look,body shape,vocal or height.So don't get let down because you are not perfect or good looking because nobody are perfect,but theres somethings you can do to make yourself look attractive to the pretty girls eyes and inner heart.So lets not wasting any time this is the powerful tips to be more attractive *-*.

1.DRESS SMARTLY

Please don't tell me that you are going to date a girl by wearing ugly shirt,dirty shoes,and messy hair....because if you do that for sure i mean 100% sure that you are going too get rejected badly.So as what I've said,its OK not to have the look,height,abs etc. because in reality your appearance is the one that matters the most.
Here are some extra tips before heading out for a date:
1.Brush your teeth(make sure its clean,white,and smells good)
2.Style your hair properly and attractively
3.Wear neatly and smartly(don't wear unwashed cloths or pants)
4.Put on some cologne/perfumes  (make sure it smells good and not fishy)
5.Smile(don't make a annoying face or you will scare your date off)

2.BE POLITE

Especially to the waiter or waitress,in our eyes they might just be a worker but we should treat them humanly as well so that our date will know that we are a polite person and worth respecting in anyways so don't think that its cool to be rude or you will regret
HOW SHOULD YOU TREAT A WAITER/WAITRESS TO BE MORE RESPECTED
1.Raise your hand to called,not shouting or whistling
2.Say thank you always
3.Say sorry when a sudden change of your order occur
4.Give tips(don't have to be much but show your appreciation)

3.OPEN THE DOOR FOR HER(FOR MAN)

Opening the door its a mixed between being a gentleman and a kind person as well so guys......
open the door for your date.Alright not only the door but even the chairs pull it out and push it in for her trust me she will feels like a princess and her heart and mind will said that you are the right guy for her.
EXAMPLE OF THINGS TO HELP:
1.Open the car door,house door,restaurant door,shopping mall door(if not automatic)for her
2.Pull out the chair and push in the chair for her always in the restaurant
3.Carry her bag for her

4.BUY FLOWERS

Buy her flowers (Roses are recommended as it will make her heart blooms as well as how the flower does)of course roses are recommended if you don't know what kind or categories of flowers she like.
If you don't want to buy flower here are a few life hacks to choose the best colour for your girl
1.Buy a flower that match her her car colour
2.Buy a flower that match her dress colour
3.Buy a flower that match her room colour

5.DON'T SHOW OFF(BE HUMBLE)

Don't show off your fortune,your money,your car,your house of whatever you are able to show off to her.Because girl hates this kind of guy as they called a materialistic kind off person.Showing off does not make you look richer or cooler but in the flip side it will make you look like a jerk and a looser .

In conclusion,i believe that all of you out there is a attractive, handsome and a well rounded person and i wish you all the best of luck to find your dream girl and future life partner

DREAM BIG

Why,what for,a dream is nonsence,dreams are just illusion to our brain,real world does not seems to be easy so theres no need to waste time for dreaming big.And thats how some people look at dream,again as I always do (I against it).Having a tremendously huge (words of wisdom by donald trump :1 lol) dream is something to be proud of and something to be value for in life.

Whats a dream for ? you might ask. OK
FIRSTLY :Its for courage yea courage to strive even further to achieve your goals

SECONDLY :Motivation I know I usually love to said the word motivation but i really adore this word and yeah that's right dream big gives you motivation to sent positive energy to you

THIRDLY:Stable mindset and i will tell you why in just a short while about my story hehe love to tell my life story that could be beneficial to you audients out there


OK and now the sound of the boring grandfather story is beginning since i was 4 I already have a dream and that is pretty professional dream that is being a doctor and of course times change as a 4 year old boy I don't know that taking medical course gonna cost a lot in price and brain level.So when i was 13 new dreams came ok now you might said what now you are talking about is ambition not dream but actually it related so yea the new dream or so called ambition is to be a lawyer and drive a bmw,audi, or mercedes.And one day theres a successful uncle told me what's your ambition and proudly i say a attorney  and he ask what else??i told him huh?one dream is surely enough too get life going.And his answer is no, he says dreams make it 3 not 1 you will need a backup in life so after that i did some research about intrest and class related streams ive pick this following dreams

1.attorney
2.business executive (in a top company)
3.doctor

As years go by and when i was 15 my friend whos like a big brother told me that 'I regret for not having a dream before and now I'm studying the coarse in university that I don't even like and its all due to last minute planning ' .A friend of his told me 'I have dream that I worked hard for and implement it till the day of entrance to college and i have a total no regret because DREAMS might sound cheezy but its really beneficial for a long time planning, by the way he is taking law course and its one of the most difficult but he said i like what i learned because i choose it since so many years ago and i loved it'

See the difference its pretty huge because once entering college its either dropout or being successful so if you are a young reader out there please at least have a dream even when Bill Gates(founder of microsoft) have a dream at the young age of 12 and you see now his a multi billionaire.Don't worry if you failed because its better to failed than never try and its even better than a person who never have a dream for his life.

So lets rep it up,trust me everyone will success . Success does not always involved with money but its got to do with the life you want to live so delevoped a dream and be success in your own desire and never let anyone stop your from doing so.

QUOTE OF THE DAY- "CHOICE IS SIMPLE.WORK ON YOUR DREAMS OR SOMEONE'S ELSE"