Why Should You Start Today And Not The Final Moment

The human brains seems to have a talking machines like siri or google now that will tell us to do the things that is not important first and then do the important stuff in the last minute like exams, meeting stuff etc. but at least google now and siri is much more reliable and this order or answer is more beneficial to us. As all that said,I'm no exception because I seems to do my revision or studying the final minute or day before the test/exams starts and I've been regretting it every single time when I started somethings that concerned my future at the very last minute/moment.

So this is the most powerful quote that works every single time for me, well of course I'm sure that this quotes isn't something new and that is "START NOW AND THE FUTURE YOU WILL THANK YOU" And I'm pretty sure that it makes a deep sense and what it stated is the real truth because for the experience that I have encounter and most successful people too (well I'm not saying that I'm successful but just saying that I myself had experience the differences)

Now I will share my short story, OK in one year I will have 4 exams in total and that is 1st semester, mid terms ,3 semester and end of the year test. During the last 2 months test I prepare and doing my revision one day before the exam start and obviously i failed, no credits, get number 12 out out 28 people in my class and from others point of view I totally and  intentionally screwed up my test and to be honest i was shy, feeling stupid as hell when my result sucks so i tell myself that i wanted too changed my grades for god sakes during my next test and that is the mid-terms.
And thankfully my mid-terms had just end last 3 weeks and during that period, I totally spent most of my time studying and doing the revision that I've needed and when i said i prepare early I meant 3 days before exams because i just want too see if there's any changes and mid-terms are one of the most difficult tests that lasted for 3 weeks straight non-stop and yes it helps not a little but a lot and I mean it.My grades wasn't the best but it has improved drastically and this word suits the most. I had 8 credits and that is 1A 4A- 2C+ 1C and for my class ranking I've dropped (improved) from number 12 to a quite OK number 5 with a school ranking of less than half and that's surprised my quite a lot actually. That's my wonderful moment that starting from the day my result was issued or announce I've ask myself almost everyday that why have I've been so lazy and doesn't want to start earlier and be happy later if you get what I meant.

Another story of mine is about working out to keep fit...basically I was in the range of obesity or overweight when I was 13 years old with a BMI of 26 and a half and for your information that is a really unhealthy rate and my friends would always called me fat and obviously weak as well. You might ask why should I be overweight and why didn't you exercise in the first place, alright the answer is simple and stupid and that is I thought I could not lose weight anymore and my life will just be this way (fat, weak, undependable, a loser and all the negativity stuff) but that mindset of mine change when I was 14 years old. During the 14 years old me on that time I was determine to lose weight, be strong, tall, muscular, cool, and feels great, awesome about my self.So like all the aesthetics people we starts from low level to some hardcore level and my first workout is push up and during the push up workout I've founded my talent and that is doing 60 push ups in 1 minute and that is like 1 push ups 1 second and I admit that I'm showing off now but its a reality that I'm the best at push ups in my whole school and basically the teacher could not even believe that i could do that much as most of my school athletics could not do that much.OK lets cut the crap now and yes I've made it, just in a short 7 months of non stop training my BMI level drop from 26 and a half to 24(upper fit) during that moment I was so proud of myself and I told myself to never give up anytime soon and I've kept my promised to my self, for that in the age of 15 my BMI had shrink from 24 to a whopping 22 (perfectly healthy fit) and that is all thanks to the motivations from most you tube trainers and quotes from the worldwide search engine google.

So for closure, I'm saying that we should never start when its too late because regrets is just  in front of you if you don't take any actions to change the future of yours. Don't believe in my story, experience, than its OK but just try to do it because the ancient word is always right and that is "YOU NEVER TRY YOU NEVER FAILED, AND IF YOU NEVER TRIED YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHETHER OR NOT IF YOU WILL PASSED"so just never give up on trying, life is all about exploring, doing and failing or succeeding.

And all that said I wish every single one of you out there to be more aware and do well on every single things you do and be the generations of success.

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO IF YOU GET BACKSTABBED BY SOMEONE YOU TRUSTED

What is back stabbed? The word Back stabbed have a lot of meaning and one of the most well-known meaning is taking a knife and stabbed into a individual back but there's another meaning that is betrayed or bad mouthing behind someone.So with all that said do you ever get back stabbed by someone you trusted,maybe from your family members,best friend,classmates, or co-workers?If your answer is a yes,I'm sorry but I  totally understand how you feel and I've experience it so many time but just its not from family(this hurts the most), or co-worker,but friend is yes.And sadly its not only once or twist but so many times that I couldn't really remember how many times is it.The feeling sucks and the consequences are even worst because you will have to recover from your shattered heart,accept the reality and faced the facts that someone who listen to the slander will start to misunderstand you.But don't be sad or think that your life isn't worth it because when there's a way in there's always a way out and it will take time to find your way out from the maze runner game but just in a more sad situation rather than scary and exciting.OK this is a few tips of overcoming this very hard time but I won't be 100% guaranteed that it will help or succeed but why not give it a try because as my idol 'RICHARD ST.JOHN' always said:you never try,you never failed,in the same time you will never succeed if you never try.So here are the way and all of this following tips are same and is not following any order.

1.LET GO AND FORGIVE
If you never learn to forgive,you will never ever release yourself from the prison that you had locked yourself into. Forgiving does not mean that you will forget the incident instantly or have to stay as a friend with him or her but forgiving is actually for your own good because when someone has done something bad don't worried because one day they will get the retribution and punishment that they deserve but in a legal way so there's no need to was you time and energy to make yourself angrier and mood down all the time.Remember life is short be happy always and ignore the things that does not concerned you or your life and focus on what's meaningful and got to do with your success.

2.STAND STILL AND STRONG
Don't let other people misunderstanding be the reason you give up your career, education or even life, because always remember god give you life, and in life everyone will faced the bad event or in other word an unwanted event more than 1 time in their life so remember that you are not facing this hard and tough time alone as their are people that faced something even worst everyday but still have the faith to not giving up on their life and move on till the end of time. OK if your own best friend   misunderstand you, you should start to open your eyes and mind wider and be aware that he or she does not deserve to be your friend and you should start to cut the ties. Just note that having no friends is actually not a bad things so its OK not to have any friends.

3.CONFRONT THE BACKSTABBER
There must be a reason for someone to back stabbed you and most of the time the reason is due to jealousy and misunderstand but it is still better to ask so that it will be clearer and the both of you could cure things up and start afresh.Note:during the conversation,never ever be rude or using a high tone as it will only make the situation worst and even thought you did nothing wrong but once you raise your voice and using drastic word other people will suspect that the lie is real.Another note:listen first of what the respondent wanted to said and not just interrupting half way because that will change the emotion of the respondent to be from cool to frustrated.

4.TAKE THIS AS A LESSON
I know you might have not done anything wrong but still,you should take this as a life lesson to not believe in someone outside from your comfort zone(family,relative) so easily.Of course I'm not saying to not have a close friend or act everyone as your enemy or what so ever,but all I wanted to said is just to be more careful.Actually want to know what someone who back stabbed you is actually more likely to be the one who is closer to you and know most of your weakness and this is based in my experience.

5.TELL SOMEONE (BE HONEST)
Definitely not everyone lost believe in you, so for the one who did not lost any believe in you, try to confront them and tell them the truth and that you had been framed or get bad mouth by some individual and I'm sure that they will understand and lend you a hand to bring back your justice and dignity. If no one believe in you (with don't happen frequently but it could happen) remember there's always a family member who are ready to lent a listening ear to you. Why be honest? the answer is once you lied you won't feel good or peace and in reality you are back stabbing others as well so you are basically no different from the low level (not serious)  perpetrator. So be honest and it will be easier to clear your innocent name.

6.LET YOUR ANGER OUT
So let it all out but not letting your anger out by: smocking, drinking alcohol, doing illegal activities, commit a crime, doing illegal drugs because that will totally make the situation worst for you and your life as well because most of the following are something that will only make you feel good for a tiny while but the pain and sadness will last forever,so remember just never ever get into all that crime because its not worth it and not even the slighter's bit.So now you might ask how should I release all my anger? Here's how
1.Use a stress relief toys, squeeze it, punch it, kick it do whatever you want with it but don't hurt yourself
2.Listening to music depending on your likings.Note:Don't listen it with a high volume if using headphone as it will damage your hearing.If you are using a speaker or a boom box remember to check on you neighbours.
3.Go to the gym, in the gym there are a tons of friendly people who you can interact with without feeling awkward or shy,in the gym there are also a punching bag that you could punch till you feel good.NOTE:Make sure that you have no medical record such as heart problem,breathing problem or bone problem as that will be dangerous and for safety purpose, do consult your family doctor first.


So there you go 6 of my best tips to overcome this sad and angry moment in life. As closure I'm going to said that I believe in all of you and I know the reason you read this blog is because you had been back stabbed but remember you are never alone in this world there are always someone who you can believe in and there are also always someone who will help you so don't worried and live your life happily.

HOW TO BE AWESOME

Being awesome isn't always got to do with having a super power , a genius brain,or bank full of money ,because everyone in this world including you are gifted with a special something.If you still couldn't figure out what are you gifted with but really want to be a awesome guy or girls and for sure there are more tips than this but here are a few of the most noticeable and less common once ,so lets not wasting any more time here are 5 useful and beneficial to life tips.

1.BE KIND TO EVERYONE

Nothing is more awesome than being kind to everyone without caring about whats their religion,races,or family background because remember every human are the same whether someone is white,brown or black they are still human and they have feelings, they have the same body organs as us so never look down.Being kind to others also include not being a selfish person when it comes to helping and trust me helping others will make you be much more happier than getting something you really wanted.

2.BE CONFIDENT

People that are awesome is always confident on their decision and they will not care about any criticism or discouragement from any individual.Awesome people will also be confident when facing a big crowd,a very important person, or even going for a job interview.Be confident of yourself always because nobody can have the awesomeness the way that you have so show it and don't feel discourage no matter what the circumstances are.

3.MORAL VALUE

Always hold onto the moral values of life,in example of moral value is be rational is one of the most important value to hold on as.The meaning of rational is thinking before acting and this is it one of the best value because if we never never think before act we might hurt someone feeling and that's not awesome .

4.BE PASSIONATE

Be extra passionate on what you do,prove to the world that you could make a history like no others,love what you doing,love your job and I'm sure that you could be awesome by this way.Well don't ever bother about what other said as people normally hate people that are successful than them so be proud if someone hates you because for sure they have a reason for doing so and the reason is no other than 'JEALOUS'

5.BE INDEPENDENT

Awesome comes from the sense of being independent and not depending on others all the time.If someone always depends on their parents or friends even for the smallest matter,outsider or other people will call the 'someone' as a spoiled brat or a looser that will never be able to faced the world alone and I'm pretty sure that you would not want to be looked as that way.So as most of the successful people said start today and the future you will thank you,but if you start the the very last munite I'm sure that the tomorrow you will hate you till his or her very last bone.


Lets rep this up,ladies and gentleman,I'm sure that all of you is someone whom is awesome in your own ways and i hoped the best for you to succeed in being as awesome as possible

FAILURE IS NOT ALWAYS BAD

Failure,what does it really mean ?? does it mean that I'm not a genius,I can't do do it ,or I'm not suitable for any of this and it was not meant to be for me.WELL,i can proudly and loudly tell you that the answer is a No!!.Failure occurred in many aspect I.E:it might be failing in sports,education,exams,occupation,speech,building a empire from scratch,auditioning etc.

So this is the reality,basically everything we do in our life will fail once in the while,so we shouldn't take that as a discourage or a demotivator to our life and don't want to keep on trying to strive for the best in life.But in the other way around we should stand up like a man or a brave woman to face the failure that causing us to fall from the mountain we climbed.REMEMBER failure is never end of the world but for me failure is just a beginning of life.

Now let me share a little of my story.I'm a student and obviously student face a tons of failure in exams and sports.Sadly i was not the genius one in my class but luckily i got myself into a clever class because I never give up and always want to be the best i can be and never stop making myself feels confident and brave during oral test Lol even when anxiety strikes the he*! out of me i hold on and make myself think that i shouldn't care about criticism .I have anxiety disorder but its not so serious that needed any psychologist treatment but I surely gave a hard time always OKOK this is way out of the topic but I'm planning to make another topic about anxiety.So when i failed i fall into a state of depression but that was before.But after I've learnt that many successful people have failed before such as TIM COOK(CEO of Apple),STEVE JOBS(founder of Apple),RICHARD ST.JOHN(AUTHOR,NOVELIST,MOTIVATOR), even the president fails in life sometimes but non of them seems to give up so i tell myself i can be like them as remember failure is human nature nobody is perfect but we have to make our self be perfect.Think about THOMAS EDISON he failed not once not twist but a whopping 10000(10k) times i guess if most of us are in his shoe we will probably gives up and our third attempts XD!!

So lets take that as a lesson and moral value to keep on going and don't let failure be failure but make failure be a test.And always think of failure as just a ordinary word and it can't determined your life because only you can determined your life and how you want to change it.Lastly remember i am a somewhat paranoid person and if i can do it i believe you won't have a problem by accomplishing it as well.

QUOTE OF THE DAY: 'There is not such thing as failure. There are only results.'